If you are struggling to find a life partner and fail in every way u try, you need to change your style. There is definitely something wrong that you are doing which you need to improve. You need to change your ways or need to think differently. He may be right next to you and you are ignoring him at this point. Follow our advice to help you find what you are looking for. You have way too high standards. You need to be realistic when you are looking for a life partner. Life is not like how it is showed in the movies. You may want a rich husband, intelligent man with a fancy car but if you have nothing to offer him, it won't work out. You need to understand your level and hunt accordingly. You do not listen. Everybody wants a partner who listens to them. If you want to be the one always talking and are not ready to listen to anybody, the opposite gender will run away from you. Nobody wants a talking parrot. Learn the art of listening. You are going after the wrong person. If you are looking to marry Tom Cruise, that is not going to happen. It's true that you need to understand whom you are chasing. If you are constantly chasing a guy/girl who has clearly stated that they have no interest in you, you need to back off. There are chances when you convince somebody to love you back but that's very rare. Its better you don't waste your time there. You are hung on to your ex. There is a very high possibility that one of the major reasons you are not finding anybody is because you are still hung onto your ex. You still talk to them and hang out with them. You have them as your backup and you don't seem actively interested in looking for someone. You don't take an effort By going about your regular habits, there is nobody new going to come up in your life. There is no magic happening and a cute stranger randomly knocking at your doorstep. You need to take a serious effort to meet new people and talk to them. You come out as desperate If people ask you what you want to do and the answer is date someone, you are desperate my friend. You need to understand that people run away from desperate single people. You have to be confident and self made to find someone. You fear being tied down This is also a major reason why people are single. They find their single lives very fulfilling and don't want to tied down to having to be answerable to anybody. This attitude is wrong. A relationship will not tie you down if you are with the right person. You are over independent Being independent is a good thing but when you are looking for a partner, you need to show the need for the other person. If you show that you can do everything on your own and don't need anybody in your life, why would they be with you? People want partners who expect something from them, who rely on them. You need to show a need for your partner in your life.